Dear John, I’m gone…

I really hate having to write the stuff like I did below.  But I had to close off things with J somehow.  The communication simply ended and I don’t know why.  *shrugs*  So I’ve decided to gather up my self-respect and move on.  Nome – I know how you feel.

J- 

I guess that’s it… 

The subject says it all.  I’m not sure why, but it seems that instead of talking to me about whatever has caused the lack of communication you’ve instead decided to let things wither and hope I’ll just go away.  So I think I’ll grant you your wish.  I just wish you would have said something instead of saying things were fine the last time we talked.

I’m a big boy, I could have handled whatever you had to say.  To me, it just seems a bit rude to ignore someone, especially when you have made future travel plans with them.  So at that I’m rather frustrated though at this point it doesn’t matter.

When someone decides to stop or end something, a courtesy of at least telling the other party involved is customary.  You don’t have to give a reason other than, “It’s just not working out for me.”  It would have been nice to have that courtesy given to me. 

Should you find yourself in a similar situation in the future please tell the other person that you’re through instead of just ignoring them and thinking they will ultimately get the idea.  It will save them 1. A lot of time, and 2. A lot of worry about what went wrong and what they could have done differently. 

I wish you well and I hope you are a great success at whatever you want to achieve in the future.  I really do.

Good luck, and feel free to keep in touch. 

CQ